The hubs and I have been talking quite a bit lately about eating healthy on a budget. We live in a country with an abundance of cheap, manufactured food of questionable quality and nutritional value. If you like your veggies fresh, not pesticide laden or genetically modified – sorry, but that will hit your pocket big time. Maybe you are lucky enough to have a plot of soil and the willingness to put in the time and effort to exercise your green thumbs. Unfortunately we’re condo dwellers. And that’s why we love living in the Pacific Northwest where we take advantage of the farm fresh bounty. Yes, we pay more. We call it health insurance. But what do you do when you retire and live on a (much) smaller budget and still want to eat well? We’ve been exploring the new/old ways. You know, how people prepared food in the old days before they worked 10 hours a day and drove through McDonald’s on the way home because they had to be somewhere at 7pm. These days it has a hip, trendy name – Slow Food. It’s a movement and apparently we’ve become part of it.
We’re suddenly cool because we are doing the things our mothers and grandmothers did every day until General Electric decided that they were wasting time and started creating gadgets to take over their work. Women who spent all of their time working at home were suddenly free! What did they do with all that free time? They went outside of the home to work. This work brought in more money so they could buy more time saving gadgets and because now they didn’t have time to cook an actual meal, they stopped for a pizza. Many of us know how to “heat” or “nuke” but have forgotten how to cook. I had. Of course I married a guy who cooks, but even that was slowly being replaced by eating out or take-out eaten in front of the TV. Slap me silly, but it’s the truth.
Watch out what you wish for, because you might just get it. As a child of the 50’s and 60’s and a young woman of the 1970’s I am all for equal rights and equal opportunity and I believe women (and men) should be able to work any darn place they like. But, in our typical American way, if a little is good – a LOT must be better. We’ve worked ourselves into a groove so deep, it’s hard to get out. And not always for the satisfaction of a job well done, but because we needed a bigger house or another TV or (it was always something). And so on and son on, until…something happens and you lose your job or you are forced to retire or you graduate with your fancy degrees and you can’t find a job that pays enough to cover your student loans. You’re in deep doo doo Donald! Like the Broadway play Stop the World I Want to Get Off, it’s all been kinda spinning beyond our control. What seemed like such a good idea at the time has somehow morphed into Dante’s Inferno. Ok, I’m exaggerating, but as we’ve been looking at the reality of living the rest of our lives with a lot less, I’m just starting to realize that I sacrificed so much in the name of stuff. Stuff that is now being given to the Goodwill or sold on ebay or piled into the weekly trash bin.
As far as I know, nobody get’s a do-over on their life. I’m just glad that we have been given this opportunity to explore the other side – not just the slow food movement but the slower life movement. We’re working less and making less, but we’re savoring it more. We have time to cook and share food – home grown, home canned, and home-made with friends and family. Some of you figured this out a long time ago. We’re late bloomers. My husband’s fondest memories are from the 1970’s when he lived in a small beach town in Massachusetts. Life was simple – focused on family, friends and community. Entertainment was free – a pickup baseball game or board games and they traded their homegrown harvest for fresh caught lobster. Did we really give that up for a 45″ HD TV and think we traded up?
As I sat here writing this post, my favorite chef was downstairs making up meal sized batches of lasagna with ingredients left over from our cooking marathon, pasta making, cheese making, birthday celebration yesterday evening. Does it get any better? Not much! We’re grateful for our bounty.
To be continued…